Happy Anniversary, Party of One

Another anniversary is here. May 22 marks what would’ve been our 30th anniversary. You know how I’ve always hated the would’ves, could’ves, and should’ves because I equate them to regret. To me, regret is the most useless emotion. Why?

Gardening 101 - What Do I Plant Nau?

I must have been born with a harvest gene. It always gave me pure joy to see fruit hanging from a tree and more so picking them. I didn’t necessarily have to eat the fruit. There was more satisfaction in seeing things grow and ripen, and finally in harvesting. I always dreamt I would have a garden someday filled with my favorite fruits and vegetables.

The Journey

My journey from loss back to life began on November 25, 2009, when my husband and the love of my life, Tim, died of complications of liver cancer, a result of the insidious Hep-C virus that he did not even know he had until just a few years before his cancer diagnosis.